I know this one all too well trying to get validation from employers, friends, or whoever. Working your ass off and feeling unappreciated is a hard pill to swallow sometimes. We all love that pat on the back and an "atta boy" once in a while but we can't wait for someone or something outside of ourselves to give that to us. We need to know our own worth and when we do, it no longer really matters who sees us shine. We know we do and at the end of the day we have to ask ourselves, "Will these people REALLY matter at the end of my life?" Usually it's big fat NO.
So, we lean on the people who love us to validate us- not the pricks at work or the friends aren't that great of friends. "I will love you and validate you until you see it in yourself"
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